Argumentative essay

by - November 09, 2013

Topic : Arrangement  marriage should be eliminate in Cambodia society.
            Arrangement marriage is a custom of Khmer families life in the past until now. Because most of Khmer people are Buddhism they believe that parent should have duty to choose a partner to their children. Moreover, for children also have duty to respect back to the parent decision. We can see that some couple life are live in happiness and some of them are force with love problem. For bring a true love and human right arrangement marriage should be eliminate in Cambodia society in several reasons.
            Arrangement marriage have been common practice in Khmer society. Parent choose the a man or woman who come from a good families, knowledge for their children. In addition, arrangement marriage is kind of choosing a good partner life that parent and all relatives are liked and they think that they have response for their children.  It seen kind of form a good families life.
            Arrangement marriage sometime can bring painful in love life. It is bring painful in some reason such as forcing by parent, dislike partner, and they have their own love. For example, some people agree with parent to married because they think sometime living together will make love later. In contrast, it just keep pain and get divorce later. Furthermore, for people who have their own love will bring more suffering and regret to hold life.
            Beside bring painful to love life, it can have inattention baby. Although it kind of arrangement ; sex without love also can happen. For having baby without love from parent; baby face with carless and lack of happiness. For instance, both of mother and father just think one of them will care of baby. In fact non of them take care baby. In addition, if the parent is divorced, baby will suffer and mother and father will feel guilty to born the baby.
            Other point arrangement marriage effect to human right. Due to universal human rights declaration love marriage at article sixteen right to marriage and families said at second point that “  Nobody should force you to marry “. According to the human right parent either somebody should not force man or woman to married with unlike person. It is against the law.
            Stand on the custom some people believe that children should respect the parent arrangement because it is what ancestor do. If we look from the past life, more Khmer families follow this theory. Moreover, they think that the older look not wrong because stand on their experience and look for background of man or woman families. However, it should not practice more in Khmer society now a day because Cambodia have been accept the human right as the law and man or woman should have more dependent to choose either respond for what they love. In addition, married without love it hard to bring happiness to love life and families.
            In conclusion, arrangement should be eliminate in Cambodia society. As we know that it just can bring suffering, inattention children, and against the law.
For bring the happy life without regret parent should be consider about their children.


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